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One should treat all creatures in the world as one would like to be treated - Jainism .... Do unto others as you would have them do unto you - Christianity .... None of you truly believes until you want for others what you want for yourself - Islam .... Treat not others in ways you yourself would find hurtful - Buddhism .... What is hateful to you do not do to your neighbour - Judaism ....
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7 Questions
an aid in making Positive Choices

 About the 7 Questions -

These 7 Questions are drawn from the Golden Rule as written in the life affirming faiths and philosophies of the world. They are intended to help develop our moral intuition, and to encourage us to become more deliberate in the application of the Golden Rule in our daily lives.

The Golden Rule has been written in hundreds, perhaps thousands, of different ways. All sharing a common grounding in mutuality, that universal relationship that the ancient Greeks called agapé.

Through this Principle of Mutuality, the choices we make, like the proverbial ripples in a pond, flow outward from us to the "other" and beyond.

The 7 Questions are a tool to help us understand our choices in the context of that image. They are, in reality, one question, applied to ever widening circles of relationship.

Using the 7 Questions -

The Questions are not intended as a scorecard. However, a good place to start in your practice of using them is to simply see how many times you can answer "Yes" in response to them.

At first, it may seem simple. However, as you begin to reflect more deeply on the relationship symbolized in each question, you may find that the exercise takes more consideration than you had first thought.

 Each of the 7 Questions starts identically -

Will this decision positively affect:

  1. The "other" (that person or part of Creation most directly touched by your choice)

  2. You

  3. Those closest to the "other"

  4. Those closest to you

  5. Your shared community (neighborhood, workplace, organization)

  6. Other communities (beyond you and the "other")

  7. The world/environment/Creation

 Don't force it. Like exercising any other muscle, beefing up our moral intuition can be painful. And its hard work But it's worth it.

The more we exercise our moral intuition, the more deliberate we become in using it.
                The more deliberate we are, the closer we are to creating a Golden Rule world.

 

Comments? If you find value in the 7 Questions, I'd very much like to hear from you.
 
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